Seventeen years ago we were blessed with our fifth daughter, Amanda. She was beautiful and weighed seven pounds. After she was delivered by C-section (breech position), Tom held my hand tightly and immediately said to me, “I think our baby has Down syndrome.” He noticed her almond-shaped eyes because thirteen years earlier we had already experienced the same situation when our first daughter was born with Down syndrome. In all honesty, I didn’t handle it very well and was depressed. I was afraid Amanda would have some of the same problems Sara had and just couldn’t imagine how I could cope.
But I was in for a surprise. Amanda is one of my biggest joys in my life. We all love her and she has personality plus. She makes life so much fun. Almost three years ago, I wrote a book about what it was like to have a second child with a handicap and how I overcame my depression. Celebrating And Caring For Your Baby With Special Needs is published by Booklocker.com. She has a great sense of humor and has an enthusiasm for life that is heartwarming. Sure she has limitations but within those limitations, she is a bright young lady. Amanda is a typical teenager since she enjoys shopping, movies, music, talking, sports, and boys.
She did have Grave’s disease for three years and that was a difficult time with all the blood tests. Since she never went into remission, she had thyroid surgery. Because of cancer cells found in her thyroid, she had to go through tests to be sure cancer wasn’t elsewhere in her body. It wasn’t. She still has many routine checkups for her hearing losses and to make sure her synthroid medication is the right dosage.
So today we celebrate Amanda’s 17th Birthday. Of course, she wants her favorite food - pizza and a cake that is a recipe from Samhain author, Annmarie McKenna.
I didn’t take a birthday picture of her yet so this is from this past Christmas. She loves to wear Santa’s hat and to pass out the gifts each Christmas.

Because the character, Miranda, in my book, A Fiery Secret, is based on Amanda, I’m sharing two small excerpts. Enjoy them and post a comment to be entered in a drawing. The winner can choose a free download of either No Greater Loss or A Fiery Secret. Or if you don’t mind waiting, the winner might want to choose my newest book, Never The Same which will be available on Feb. 13th.
1st Excerpt from A Fiery Secret
Jake and I drove straight to the coffeehouse. I mentioned getting my car, but he said, “You’re not ditching me yet. We’ll get it later.”
Miranda saw us enter and when I saw a hopeful glint in her eys, I knew what she was thinking.
“You have a boyfriend now.” She smiled at Jake. “You’re hot.”
I rolled my eyes. “He’s not my boyfriend. We work together at The Messenger.”
Miranda shrugged. “That’s too bad. You should have a boyfriend.”
Didn’t Miranda and I have this boyfriend conversation recently? And she’d keep on me until I told her I’ve got a boyfriend. I moaned. “You’ve been talking to my mother again.”
“You’re twenty-five.” Miranda fingered a tea towel in her hand, eyeing my ancient face, probably looking for wrinkles. “I have a boyfriend and I’m sixteen.”
Jake winked. “I agree with you, Miranda. Catherine should have a boyfriend. And I’m sure she will soon.”
“My boyfriend Kevin and I want to double date, so I hope it’s soon. He can’t drive.”
Jake pushed his hands into his pockets. “Would you and Kevin like to come to my parents’ house for a Halloween party? It’s next Friday night.”
“That’s not trick or treat night, is it?” Miranda asked.
I recalled how she’d talked about going out on Beggar’s Night. Wearing a costume and walking around her neighborhood was a big deal to her since her mom had said this was her last year to go. “It shouldn’t be on Friday. It’ll probably be on Sunday or Monday night. If it’s okay with your mom, I can pick you and Kevin up for the party.”
# 2 Excerpt
Miranda and Kevin were waiting on the porch for me, so I didn’t get out of the car. Mrs. Carter waved from the doorway. I thought it was cute when Miranda didn’t get in the front seat with me, but got in the back seat with Kevin.
I turned around and smiled at the young couple. “You two look great. I love your costumes.” Miranda, dressed in a bodysuit with an attached light green skirt and wings, made an adorable pixie Tinkerbell. Kevin looked good as Peter Pan, wearing a jagged tunic with a rope tie, matching tights, and a hat with a red feather.
“Thank you, but I wanted to be Wendy instead of Tinkerbell. Mom couldn’t find a Wendy costume.”
I put the car in reverse and backed out of the driveway. “Sorry you couldn’t be Wendy. I’m surprised Tinkerbell wasn’t your first choice. I do like you as a little fairy.”
“But Wendy gets the guy.”
I nodded. “You have a point.
Don’t forget to leave a comment so you can be in my drawing. I’ll have Amanda draw the winner on Friday, Jan. 12th when she gets home from school. Contest ends at 2:00 p.m. Eastern Time. I’ll post it here and at the cafe. Thanks for reading this!